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jelousofthe1


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Help me Bro & Sis :-(
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...i really have a big problem right now..
and wa ko kahibaw asa ko moduol....no

i have a boyfriend right now (kaila c silver clone ani)...
di cya christian,.catholic xia but he is
very much willing and open sa mga things like this...
i mean sa ato ganing faith and religion...(whatever)
close kaau xia sa akong parents....i've met his
family na sad..everything's ok...

the problem is...i think i'm pregnant cry
..i know..mali jud xia...
what can i do??...nahitabo naman ni??

how can we tell our parent's about this???
taas kaau cla ug expectation namo cry

pls pray for us......

i'll be waiting for ur posts..
tnx and God bless





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jel, d langta mugamit sa imu real name.., hmm, if ever positive jud na, ayaw ko paangkona na akoy amahan hap?? wahahahaha..joke..

bitaw jeL, pray and pray lang jud,,Ask for guidance and wisdom kay Lord..
And post didto sa advice and counciling..k?

welcome d.i diri and ig wed hap??text lang ko nimo

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jelousofthe1


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nag pray jud bya ko na maau unta...wa la jud...
but i'm pretty sure nga naa...:(....

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hi jel..theres no other thing to do,.it is to tell your parents..

both you should tell truth..

i know masabtan jud mo sa imong parents..

trust God..

God bless you

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@ jel - pls cofirm diri if positivve jud hap?? para matabangan ug pray,, eehehhe,,^^

@annie - hi..new member? taga asa ka na church

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BESTill


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Tell your parents the truth about your situation. You can't hide it forever. Accept the fact that they will be disappointed. Of course masuko jud sila sa nahitabo. Just absorb everything ilang kasaba, you know sakto imong parents. Naay posibility nga magthink cla unsay ikasulti sa uban ninyo nga mga kaila ngano na hitabo na. We all know and you know that what happened is not right.You fail your parents and God now but you still have all the time to stand and fix everything. It's easier to say than doing it but wla kay lain option but to face your situation.. Ang first move ra maoy lisod.. What's the root cause of your problem? We can't solve a problem if we are not sure if that's the real problem we are fixing....God Bless!

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hi sis, i know of somebody who can assist u wid wisdom in your situation. it is important that you confide to godly and mature people in situations like that. we support u n prayer & r praying 4 ur best.

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Just tell the truth to your parents. It will set you free..God Bless!

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@ best ill - yup bro,,sakto jud ka. we cant solve problem if we are not sure if thats the real problem ew are solving..^^..

jel. we have you on our prayers

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Unity for All


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this is really a serious problem and whats worst you commune with the unbeliever..
sister, open this problem to your parents with your Pastor pra you will be guided...hope that this mistake will never be a common problem to us christian..Kailangan jud ta maminaw sa Pastor nato kung unsa ang i-sermon ky dako jud na siya ug impact sa ato life.
Ako lang advice natong tanan..christian jud atong pilion....ky dghan jud problem mo arise kung unbeliever atong pilion in fact the Bible is clearly teaching us to marry same believers..ky maguba ang imong pgka-kristohanon kung mkigrelation ka sa unbeliever...so hope this will be a lesson for us...
Sis, will back up you with prayer, bsta you need to open this to your parents and your pastor..mao na ang pinakasafe nga akong ma-advice nimo  to solve this problem..


-- Edited by Unity for All on Thursday 23rd of July 2009 06:28:41 AM

-- Edited by Unity for All on Thursday 23rd of July 2009 06:30:52 AM

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any updates about this topic?

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jelousofthe1


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...bro and sis...i dont know how to tell my parents bout this...ni uli ko sa amo with him...and wa jud mi kaingon tungod sa kahadlok...:(...i dont have enough courage...

well...thanks a lot to ur advices and prayers....

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Ka usaa lang na sis og atubang ang tanan kay after ana you'll feel better. Ang time ga dagan raba and basin unsa nya inyo solution ma hunahunaan ana pra ma solve inyo prob. Just to think of it that your parents are blind of the current situation you're having now. If your bf is responsible enough to face his responsibility he will not hesitate to tell your parents or his parents. I know it's easier said than done but wala na kay mahimo ana kay nana mana. It's like you're in a dead end. All you need to do is turn around and face it....Ask God about it to help you.

God Bless!

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BESTill wrote:

Ka usaa lang na sis og atubang ang tanan kay after ana you'll feel better. Ang time ga dagan raba and basin unsa nya inyo solution ma hunahunaan ana pra ma solve inyo prob. Just to think of it that your parents are blind of the current situation you're having now. If your bf is responsible enough to face his responsibility he will not hesitate to tell your parents or his parents. I know it's easier said than done but wala na kay mahimo ana kay nana mana. It's like you're in a dead end. All you need to do is turn around and face it....Ask God about it to help you.

God Bless!



sakto ka bro....
so open it  to your parents..don't just be silent ky mahibaloan rna inig ka dugayan...and it will be worst...open it now...

 



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jelousofthe1


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..mga brad..tnx sa inyong mga advice..ahmm...nka hisgot nami sa among parents...and ana cla..if ganahan daw mi mag minyo..then..suporta daw cla namo...

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congratz jel!! hehehhe.. ingana c saga hap? epasar ko sa c# kay papa na siya. whahahaha

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